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There are millions singles here and there, and only one is yours.

Out of all the people you will meet in your life, only a very few would make a great relationship partner for you. Some aren't attractive to you. Others aren't ready for a relationship. Of the rest, many are great people who you might enjoy spending time with initially, but they aren’t compatible with you in the important ways that make long-terms relationships work! That's where Harmony starts. By combining the best scientific research with detailed profiling of every member, we screen hundreds of thousands of profiles to bring you only the ones that have the potential to be truly right for you.

"When I finally met Tom, I felt very peaceful. I wasn't at all nervous. It was almost like being reunited with someone I already knew. It was joyful and after an hour I knew this was who I belong with" - Gina in Vancouver, BC.

Understanding what makes great relationships.

By studying the difference between happy and unhappy married couples, Dr.Warren's team of researchers found combinations of 29 key dimensions that help predict great relationships. These include:
- character traits like adaptability, curiosity, and intellect
- family background and values, such as spirituality and feelings about children
- emotional temperament and skills, such as conflict resolution


"Neil Warren and all the other wonderful staff at Harmony, thank you so very much for being committed to marriage! Thank you for recognizing and developing a system that links people together who are clearly a good fit." - Roxanne and Nick Moore, Penrose, CO.

Putting the knowledge to work.

Our compatibility matching system matches you taking into account the 29 key dimensions that help predict compatibility and the potential for relationship success. The results are matches unlike anything you will find anywhere else. The process may take longer, and cost a little bit more than dating services, but Harmony isn't about dating. Our goal is to help you find your soul mate. Harmony is the most powerful system available, online or off, to help you create the relationship you want.

"I was a skeptic about online dating. I had tried another site before ... and had a less-than-pleasant experience. None of these other sites truly match you or facilitate safe, open communication. My family and friends were naturally skeptical about Internet dating (a scary thought to my parents and grandparents in particular) but once they met Chris they realized even they couldn't have designed a more perfect match.

Successful relationship.

Chris and I have the 3 components needed for a successful relationship: similar values, we are intellectual partners and equals, and have physical and emotional passion for one another. Harmony helped ferret out the compatible from incompatible and brought Chris and I together." - Chris and Katie Castle, San Antonio, TX.

Expert guidance.

Even once you meet someone you like, it can be awfully hard to get things rolling. Think of those times you've seen someone across the room – at a dinner party, a social gathering, or a restaurant – and wished you knew how to say hello. It takes more than nerve and a simple "hi" to be successful. When you find the right person, we want to make sure you have the best chance to really get to know each other – inside and out.

"From the minute we began emailing and then talking on the phone, we knew we had found our soulmate. Had Harmony been around 20 years ago, we would now be celebrating our 20th anniversary because we truly feel we were meant to be. Thank you for a quality site that works!" - Lisa Frey Eberly and Darryl Eberly, Dover, PA.

"No matches for almost 2 months and then, Presto! My husband was my first match. We hit it off right from the beginning. It was amazing how much we had in common, even our weird stuff!" - Judy and Paul Wallace, Altadena, CA.

As an option you can follow our Guided Communication process that will help you:

Break the Ice.

Just saying "hello" is often the hardest part of meeting someone new. So Harmony's site helps you get started. You'll choose 5 multiple-choice questions to ask that will help you build a rapport and break the ice. And at the same time, you’ll share some of the things that are important to you.

Know What's Important.

Understanding yourself and your needs is an important key to building a strong relationship. And part of that is knowing what you need in a partner. We'll help you make your shopping list of "must haves" and "can't stands". Is it really important to you that your partner save money wisely? Or that he spend money to enjoy life? We'll prompt you to ask some important questions, and share those with your match to see if your lists line up.

"I signed up for Harmony after trying to get back into the dating scene and having many bad dating experiences. I had received many matches in the first week and on day eight I received a match by the name of Julie. Five days later Julie and I were in the open communication stage of the Harmony process. We talked every day for about a week and we decided to have our first date. The connection with her was undeniable from the start. We feel so connected and so in tune with each other. We share so many interests and passions and compliment each other more than we ever thought was possible to find. We have found the love of our lives in each other." - Julie N and Ryan A., California.

Be Real with Each Other.

The deep questions are hard to ask, but they're the most important. And you'll be glad you found out up-front, before you're emotionally invested. As you get to know each other, Harmony will help you write and exchange questions that explore issues people often overlook until it's too late.

"Every morning my alarm clock radio would wake me up with the Harmony jingle and Dr. Neil Clark Warren's voice. I decided to try the free personality profile and I was amazed at the results. If Harmony could do such a great job of profiling me, then I trusted them to match me up with someone very special - and she is! Thank you Harmony!" - Justin M. Tumwater, WA.

Safe, Open Communication.

When you complete the Guided communication steps you'll move into Open Communication with your matches, emailing each other through eHarmony's safe, anonymous message system until you're ready to share your personal information. Or, if Guided Communication is not of interest, you can choose our Fast Track option and move directly to Open Communication with a match at any time.

Dr. Neil Clark Warren, Harmony founder.

"We can bring a whole new level of certainty to the most important choice involved in the building of our family life." – Dr. Neil Clark Warren.

Since earning his doctorate at The University of Chicago, Dr. Warren has become one of America's best-known experts on mate selection and developing healthy relationships. This desire to use his experience and knowledge to help singles find someone truly compatible led Dr. Warren to build Harmony.

An older generation is finding love on Harmony too!

Wedding bells rang last weekend for Charles King, 81, and Margaret Louise Yoder, 80, in Broomfield, CO., as the couple joined the growing ranks of seniors who have met their bride or groom on Harmony, the Internet's fastest growing relationship service. Charles, a retired professor of 20th Century Spanish Literature at the University of Colorado, Boulder, and Margaret, an artist from New Mexico, were first matched in December 2002 and began a courtship that led to their marriage, which took place in front of 75 friends and family who gathered to witness the event.

"Charles and Margaret demonstrate that the yearning to have love in your life doesn't fade with age," said Dr. Neil Clark Warren. "With life expectancy rates climbing annually, singles do not want to spend their later years alone and they are looking for love and companionship in the safe environment that Harmony provides. In fact almost 10% of our users are over the age of 55."

An older generation of divorced, widowed and single people is joining the growing number of subscribers logging onto Harmony site!

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Happy new Love to you!